Do you feel even the least little bit weird about using the Law of Attraction to try to get more money or more love? Can you even do this or do you feel like there are unseen barriers in your way that are preventing you from getting that which you desire the most? If it can be done, what can you do to improve your chances of success so you can live the life that you dream of with the one that you love the most?
I know that I spent a lot of time questioning whether I could really pull this off when I first started messing around with the Law of Attraction. Throughout my life it just seemed that no matter how much money I made, it always slipped through my hands. No matter how perfect the relationship was, I always wound up playing second fiddle to someone else. What was the problem and could the Law of Attraction finally give me the kind of life that I felt I really wanted?
Even though we might know in our conscious thought that we should not actually want what we desire according to how the Law of Attraction works, it is often more difficult to reign in the subconscious mind. Even though we should relish our dreams and make them as vivid as possible while we live our lives as if we already possess that which we desire, many of us often try and fail. When we should be living in the dream of being close to the one we love we often let life’s circumstances blow that thought out of our head. When we should be feeling that satisfaction of knowing that the bills are paid and that there is money in the bank, we pace the room worrying about the money that we think we do not have. How can we remove this block that prevents us and sabotages us?
It is our nature to stumble and fall any time we try something new. It is only natural that we doubt and find excuses for trying to manifest our dreams and make our lives better. Whether it be some deep seeded guilt surrounding wealth or an attitude that simple doubts that there is any real power in using the Law of Attraction. Who are we, anyhow, to mess with the nature of the universe? But, wait a minute here! Are we really doing anything wrong and who is going to be harmed by believing in ourselves and desiring to make a better life for those around us? We are no different than the richest men alive and if our motives are pure then there is no reason why we should deny ourselves. So, what can we do with these doubts?
I am human and filled with faults. While I might wish to tell you that I never stumble and fall when using the law of attraction… that I never doubt or waver in my thoughts of my successful future when using the law of attraction. The truth is that I do have down times and I am sure that you will too. So, what are we to do? We gather ourselves together and sit ourselves down and speak kindly to ourselves. Without chastisement or judgment, we pick ourselves back up. We tell ourselves to believe and to see the success that we have found thus far in using the law of attraction. We can check our motives and talk ourselves through the feelings that we might be having.
We can look back at the successes that we have had in our past in using the law of attraction to bring both large and small things into our life. This is where keeping a diary or sorts is helpful so we can look back and remember when miracles happened in our lives thanks to this ancient law. We can remember where a request to the universe was answered with exactly what we asked for or something even better. In short order, we will be back on track and feeling better about ourselves as the doubts are swept away like the morning mist as the new day dawns.
Checking your motives can also help you to believe in yourself and minimize those roadblocks that keep you from the things that you deserve in your life. Reminding yourself of why you want the things that you dream about in your life can be refreshing as well as powerful when it comes to making mountains seem like molehills. Reminding yourself that it is not selfish to use the Law of Attraction to bring love and money into your life can move things alone when you seem stuck and looking at things from this new positive perspective can show you that many others will benefit from your work with the Law of Attraction.
Are we using the law of attraction to gain love or money out of greed because we wish to possess and hoard money or out of jealousy to receive the love externally that is lacking in ourselves? Do we wish to manifest a certain astronomical sum of money out of fear or a feeling of lack in our lives? What good will come from having this money and what will we do with it? Is it the money that we really wish to possess by using the law of attraction or is it the lifestyle and experiences that we wish to have in our lives? Is it fear that has caused us to want to stockpile cash jealously without cause or real reason or do we have a sincere desire to experience life and help humanity?
Is your desire to manifest love in your life fueled by loneliness or because you have much that you want to share with someone or a certain someone that you know? Have you lost at love and you jealously want that love back? How would you feel just to have that special someone in your life and to have a close, loving relationship with them based upon friendship? Can you love someone this way or do you want to possess them? The right motives can unleash tremendous power behind your thoughts and your dream if your heart is right when you use the Law of Attraction to manifest love.
In the end, when using the law of attraction, you need to be honest with yourself. It is a wonderful journey and finding out exactly what you want your life to be like so the universe can deliver it to you is the greatest gift of all. No matter if it is the lifestyle beyond your dreams or the love of that one special person, if your heart is right, your motives are pure and you believe without a shadow of a doubt that you truly deserve all that you desire, using the law of attraction can bring you true happiness with very little effort.
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