I know you’re stressed out wondering if or how you’re ever going to win your ex back. There is a pretty good chance that you are actually emotionally crippled at the moment and probably not in the best frame of mind to be making a whole lot of big decisions about how to get him back. It does pain my hear too since I know that all you are searching for is a chance to make things right. All you want is to wipe the slate clean and start over, right?
You see, you are at a bit of a disadvantage at the moment. You are probably very emotional since your breakup and a lot weighs in the balance when it comes to your success or failure when it comes to getting your boyfriend or husband back. You worry that if you do the wrong thing that it will be over for good. You fear that your relationship is done and that you will never be able get him back. All of this stress and pressure is actually working against you and if you can simply relax a bit you will almost intuitively know how to win him back.
If I could just release that stress from you right now and remove all doubt that you can and will get him back then everything very well might just fall into place for you. You could move forward with confidence and the assurance that you could win him back and you might even have some fun at getting him back. This stuff should be fun, shouldn’t it? But right now it’s not feeling like a whole lot of fun. The more you worry though, the further he slips away but the less you worry the more natural you become and the easier it is going to be to do what needs to be done to get him back.
In your present state, there is a pretty good chance that even if I told you exactly how to win him back you would balk at my suggestions. Even if I gave you step by step instructions on how to win him back you probably wouldn’t follow through because you would be too scared that it wouldn’t work or that your ex would reject you again. But the truth is that the steps that you might need to make that will actually help you to get him back might require you to go against your instincts right now. Sorry, but that’s just the way it is!
Your self confidence and your confidence in your love and your relationship has been decimated. Everything that you thought was real and true has been destroyed, or so it seems. You might even feel like giving up at times. You might fear that another women will grab hold of him and turn him away from you. Your confidence is the key to your success and this is why we need to work on your self confidence before you will ever be able to pull this off.
Once you have confidence in yourself, you will be able to move forward and do the right things. If you act in haste and start trying everything that you think might work like begging or pleading or promising to change, you will only make matters worse. While these attempts to change your ex’s mind are very natural and they are what most people try first, they lack the power needed to change a man’s mind. Throwing a bunch of stuff against the wall hoping that something will stick is just a pitiful plan for something as important as rebuilding a relationship that has fallen apart, don’t you think? You need a carefully thought out plan that you can execute with confidence.
You need to get you back. You need to get your life back and that woman that made him fall head over heels in love with you. You remember her, right? That girl that was fun to be around who he loved to talk to. Your attitude was not tense and you weren’t afraid that he wouldn’t fall in love with you. You were hopeful and fun and that is the type of person that everyone loves to be around, right? Is that how you have been acting lately?
Do this for yourself. Do this for your relationship. Do this out of your love for him. Relax, calm down and learn a little more about what it takes to win your ex back. Learn about what it takes to get a man to change his mind after a breakup and understand what is going on inside your man’s head. Take control of the situation and soon you will have him wrapped around your little finger wondering why he ever left you in the first place.
See how to win him back without begging or pleading. Keep your self confidence intact and get him back forever.